recently, i received news about one of my friends having an 'almost-boyfriend'. it may not sound like such a relationship exists... but it does.
haven't you noticed how many accounts in friendster have selected "It's complicated" as their status? [especially in my age group]
"It's complicated" can mean a lot of things!
ranging from...
vague
: two-sided mental/emotional confusion.
: one-sided mental/emotional confusion.
to
delusional.
: A likes B and has detailed plans for a future with B but B doesn't even know A
: A thinks B likes A even though B expressed that B doesn't like A
: A thinks B is being hard-to-get because B told A that B is in a relationship
: (insert more here)
why can't people just answer "Single" or "In a relationship"? If you think you're in between, don't choose "It's complicated"... choose one of the first two!
if you think that choosing "single" will be shouting to the world that you're available... well, HA-HA! simply flashing "single" will not help you in advertising your availability. in present time, advertising oneself requires more boldness and more creativity.
for example...
posted in front of a shop with medium to heavy human traffic.
as i said, boldness and creativity.
why can't finding a mate (also means a lot of things) be as easy as the chicken's way of attracting one?
what are you so freakin' busy with?
I could be employed right now but I went back to school to be a student.
I could be financially self-sufficient right now but I stayed dependent on my parent's monetary provision.
I could be the type of person who wouldn't care if time passed but I chose to be the person who feels guilty when time passes and I haven't done anything productive.
I could be sleeping well more often than now but I chose sleepless nights to study for an exam that I wouldn't pass with outstanding marks anyway.
I could be reading tons and tons of novels I have been wishing to read but I chose to be buried in books on Human Anatomy, Surgery and even Parasitology.
I could have more free time than now but I chose this life-consuming career path just so I could earn an 'MD' after my name.
I could be in a community as a Public Health Officer but I chose the path to becoming a Doctor for the community.
In the end, I feel I have been prepared for this. Not just by my friends, mentors and my family... but by God's will. Let this be done.
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